You can tell by the way a man looks at a woman if he is in love.
This is one of those things that a man can definitely show you better than he can tell you. It’s all in the eyes, ladies, so pay close attention.
It’s a loving gaze. It’s that sexy glance. It’s that eyes first move and then head follows stare. It’s that I-wanna-rip-your-clothes-off-you-and-ummm-do-you-right-now-right-now look.
I have always been into reading body language.
So if he has his back turned to you when you are talking about an important relationship matter, ummm, you have slipped on a banana peel into the oh, oh category.
And then if he stops with eye contact altogether, just know that you have fallen into the Dis Isn’t Working For Me Ditch.
A look is an amazingly powerful tool in relationships.
A new study being released in the Archives of Sexual Behavior finds that it takes less than 10 seconds for a man to fall in love.
The study says that on average men gazed at women they considered beautiful for 8.2 seconds. It drops to 4.5 second when they are not interested.
I wish I could have gotten to the researchers before they installed cameras and discussed the methodology for this study. They could have given me that money because I knew that it was all in the eyes a long time ago.
As a matter of fact, I think I have always been able to tell if a man is giving me a mmmm, I like you or a nah, you aren't doing it for me shorty.
But men aren’t the only ones who tell it on the mountain with their eyes. Women do too.
It’s that umph, ooooowwweeeee, whew look. The eyes focus but not necessarily follow. Nah, fellas, women don’t do that because we are a bit more discreet. It’s more of a locked-in look that if you don’t catch quickly you will miss.
In seconds, our eyes have sent a signal to the brain saying, Oh, Yea or Aaaannnnt.
A lady usually tries to get another peep later to make sure that what she thought she saw was actually what she saw. Arms, chests, legs, butt, eyes, abs, lips, hands and even his walk have all been viewed. Yep, we are fast.
The study didn’t say this but men aren’t the only ones who fall in love or ummm lust in less than 10 seconds.
Women decide faster than that, and sometimes not a word has to be muttered.
In our minds, we have said, “He Can Get It.”
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